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Posted February 22nd, 2008 by minortopics | Permalink

Mom goes on strike, gets arrested, kids accost reporter

Wow, can’t imagine why this mom wouldn’t want to spend more time with her little angels. Melissa G. Dean, a mother in Ocala, Florida, apparently would leave the house for days at a time — she was, in her words, “on strike” — leaving her four teenage boys to fend for themselves. Apparently the teens are out of control, and she just couldn’t take it anymore. Dean was subsequently charged with child neglect, and when reporters showed up on the scene to get the scoop, her kids demonstrated why Dean should perhaps get a lenient sentence:

On Wednesday FOX 35 sent a reporter and photographer to the family’s home for a story. When they got there Dean’s sons walked up to the news car when they pulled up and started swearing, and yelling out racial slurs three times the kids came back at the news crew. After the first time, the FOX 35 news crew called 911. The four kids then surrounded the FOX 35 news photographer. One of the kids stood behind him with a pipe in his hand while another kid threatened to hit him.

When police showed up they talked to some of the kids, who had scattered then took a report. A woman with the Department of Children and Families also showed up. We’re told the boys are staying with neighbors. No word on where the mother is after bonding out of jail.


Information from: http://www.myfoxorlando.com/myfox/pages/...



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  1. Chris AustriaAvatar
    Feb 22nd, 2008
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    This is why we should require Colleges and High Schools to teach parenting classes and they should be mandatory…It’s true that sometimes children just go bad no matter how good the parenting is but this is rare. Most of the time when kids go bad it’s because we as parents have failed to do our job.

  2. JodiMontana
    Feb 23rd, 2008
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    Let’s face it. Mom didn’t wake up one day and realize her kids were out of control as teenagers. Discipline was missing from a very young age. Where is the mention of a father? Of course, there wasn’t one in the home, divorce is grand. We need to stop walking away from our families for what makes us happy and realize that “our kids” need two parent households. PS. Mom and Dad, kids don’t need you to be their friends, they need you to set boundaries and be in charge of your house from the day your child is born.

  3. Hallie
    Feb 25th, 2008
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    So after reading about this mother… The two other comments above show they probably don’t have kids. I have 3. I have many times felt like going on strike… I ground them, take away privileges, put them in the corner, explain what I expect etc. etc… all to no avail. It’s not always the parents. Although there may have been a better way of handling this at a younger age, it’s hardly child neglect. The oldest is 17 the youngest 13. She cooked them meals and took them to the children. There was an article a few years ago about a couple that went on strike also. They camped in the front yard. These kids probably needed a good butt whooping, that is probably what is going through a lot of peoples minds… Well here is something for you - in my town, if you so much as spank your kid the school is calling CPS. So we’re not allowed to discipline our kids. We’re supposed to put them in “time out”. tell me what time out really does to a 14 year old? an 11 year old? how about an 8 year old? you can’t leave them there. I believe it’s a minute to each year old they are. So standing in the corner for 8 minutes is supposed to teach my youngest something? It doesn’t a sore rear end would, but oh no don’t do that, you might hurt their feelings. Get over it. I applaud this mother for finally having it and forcing her kids to be responsible for themselves. If anything it should make them appreciate them more.

  4. buddy
    Feb 25th, 2008
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    I agree with Hallie. Its not about parenting classes. Its about out of control children in an indulgent society. I take pride in the fact, I can take my five children, the oldest is eighteen, the youngest is seven, to any restaurant and when we leave the management isnt relieved to see us go. And although they may not do their school work, they are polite, and respectful to the teachers and the bus drivers.
    Thankfully I live in a state where corporal punishment, although frowned on, is still tolerated. And please dont get me wrong, I am not advocating child abuse, but a good whipping goes a long way, Severity depends on the offense. There are some things that children do that they must be taught not to ever do again. Remember todays children are going to be tomorrows leaders. And a lot of them are missing the nessessary skills to survive in the world much less lead us into the next generation.
    But as far as what to do with the children of the lady in Ocala, I submit there is no solution to this problem that will have any favorable results. They dont need a hug, they need a good beating every time they look at someone funny. But I am thinking that wouldn’t do any good either, they have gotten away with it for too long.

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