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Posted January 12th, 2008 by minortopics | Permalink

Mother and two young children run over crossing the street

UPDATE: tragedy now ruled a murder/suicide

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A woman and her niece and nephew crossed a busy highway in Boston and were run over by two separate cars.

The whole situation is so bizarre. First, the woman had pulled over because she was driving on the wrong side of the road, and then proceeds to walk into traffic with the 4 and 5 year old. Makes me think that maybe alcohol was involved??

Poor babies. Their aunt should have made every possible attempt to keep them safe but instead, lead them to an agonizing death.

Marcelle Thibault, 39, of Bellingham, Mass., was driving in the wrong direction on the highway when she drove her 2003 Lincoln on to the grassy shoulder of the road, state police said. Thibault was traveling southbound in the northbound section of the road.

Thibault then got out of the car with the 4-year-old boy and 5-year-old girl who were traveling with her.
Police did not offer an explanation for what happened next.

Thibault and the two children walked out into the middle of the road, police said, where they were hit by two cars. All three were taken to hospitals and pronounced dead.

UPDATE: The district attorney has ruled this case a murder/suicide.


Information from: http://www.thebostonchannel.com/news/150...



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  1. Parent
    Jan 15th, 2008
    [21] | Flag |

    This Marci person may be all the nice things people are saying. But she’s (was) an idiot. You don’t cross a highway with 2 children…period. No excuses…no stories.

    Plus, I work with someone very close to this person and allegedly, she was on anti-depressants. Very sad.

  2. Cousin Jamie
    Jan 15th, 2008
    [22] | Flag |

    I’m also one of Marcy’s cousins and she was one of the nicest people I have ever met. Like everyone else said, she was a loving, smart person who would always watch out for anyone. It kills me to see how reckless people are with their words and how some of these comments are outright disgusting. No one knows what happened and no one will know for sure what was going on that night. As for the people bashing her for taking the two kids, what would you do if you were stranded? If noone was around and she had to get somewhere to get help, are you going to leave two very young kids in the car alone on the side of a highway while you try to get help? I’m sure knowing her, she was thinking how devestaing that could be if they got hurt or if someone came along and took them while she was tyring to get help. She probably focused on that, after all people cross roads all the time. I’ve seen people cross the highway quite a bit when broken down, etc to get to the other side. If somethings wrong and you see a help just across the highway (gas station, house, etc.) what are you going to do, walk down the highway possibly for miles in hopes to find help again? It’s a tradgedy and horrible accident that the timing just was not right. Please just let her be remembered as the smart, beautiful, loving, friendly, happy woman she was and that this was just a horrible accident that took someone we all love out of this world WAY too soon. :-(

  3. Brian PhelanAvatar
    Jan 16th, 2008
    [23] | Flag |

    To all of the people who wrote negitive things about Marci. Go f*** yourselves. Marci will always be a great person, I had the privelage of knowing her and her family. With all the scumbags we have living in our state and country you cowards attack her. I also grew up in Bellingham so if you want to talk about her some more look me up, I’m not hard to find you spineless assholes.

  4. Brian PhelanAvatar
    Jan 16th, 2008
    [24] | Flag |

    God bless you Mandi, Mike and your families

  5. Catherine
    Jan 16th, 2008
    [25] | Flag |

    I went to high school in Bellingham MA with the Coady girls. They were all very bright and active in sports, etc. Very well known.

    I read lots of mean things online written about people by individuals who don’t know them. While it is easy to make these statements about people you do not know at all, it is offensive to their loved ones and friends.

    This tragic accident does seem surprising. However no one knows what happened in those final moments so instead of criticizing a woman who lost her life (and those of her twin’s children), maybe give her the benefit of the doubt that she was doing her best. Maybe one of the children ran across the road unexpectedly and she went after him or her, or maybe she thought she needed to get away from the highway for the safety of the kids.

    Please think before writing rude things about people you do not know.
    Catherine

  6. Heather
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [26] | Flag |

    For all of you posting your negative remarks about this incident really should be careful! I agree, what comes around goes around. I recently had a very tragic situation happen that made major headlines and it’s assholes like yourselves and the media that made it so much worse. This family was amazing and so was Marci, leave them alone - go get a job or something or go find another post you can rip people apart, this family doesn’t deserve it.

  7. Allison
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [27] | Flag |

    Unfortunately the truth has been announced. This is an extremely tragic, unbelievable event. How can anyone make sense of it? Mental illness is scary and can obviously lead to unpredictable behavior. I don’t know how anyone could go on after experiencing this. But you have to.

  8. Not relatedAvatar
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [28] | Flag |

    I guess Marci’s other cousin knew her better than the rest of the family.

    Children Hit On I-495 Were Killed By Aunt
    LOWELL, Mass. (WBZ) ― The Middlesex District Attorney’s Office says a woman purposely walked her niece and nephew into oncoming traffic on I-495 in Lowell last week.

    Marcelle Thibault, 39, of Bellingham, her 5-year-old niece Kaleigh Lambert and her 4-year-old nephew, Shane Lambert, both of Brentwood, New Hampshire, were killed on Jan. 11 when they were hit by oncoming traffic.

    “We believe that Ms. Thibault took her niece and nephew and walked with them into oncoming traffic on Route 495, tragically resulting in the deaths of the two young children while taking her own life in the process,” District Attorney Gerry Leone said in a statement.

  9. KK66
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [29] | Flag |

    Well to all of those friends, cousins, and family members that have stated that “Marci would never do this”, well look at today’s breaking news–she murdered those children and herself,on PURPOSE! Marci’s “other cousin” was SPOT ON!

  10. Scott
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [30] | Flag |

    Please, let’s not get everyone coming on here and saying that the negative comments people were leaving were correct after all.
    This is a nightmare. Pure and simple. How someone survives this mentally, and even physically is beyond me.
    Let’s just drop it, and hope that this poor family can find some peace in their world again somehow.

  11. Heather
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [31] | Flag |

    Well, sadly I guess Marci’s Other Cousin was correct, at least about the suicidal part. How very sad for the whole family. Mental illness can be devastating.

  12. CF
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [32] | Flag |

    This is pathetic. After hearing more details about this tragic event I am in disbelief at the coldness and ignorance of people passing judgement on someone they do not even know. I grew up with Marci’s family and everyone is devastated. Marci was a wonderful, caring woman who was loved by so many. Think about what you are writing. Her children and her children’s friend will read these nasty posts. My god, have some compassion. I hope to god that nothing will happen as tragic as this in one of your families—

    Unfortunately, noone will know what really happened. But do anyone of us have the right to judge? Think about what you are writing, THINK.

  13. CF
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [33] | Flag |

    Do you people have nothing better to do than sit online and judge someone else and their life? I also grew up in Bellingham and graduated with Marci’s sister. We are all devasted by what has happened and the news that has come out today. This family is amazing and although it seems that Marci did a terrible, tragic thing she is still loved and missed by so many.

    Yes it is horrible, noone will make sense of this, but remember—these posts are out there for the world to see, for her husband, children, parents, sisters–to see and read. They have suffered so much. Think before you type nasty, hurtful things.

    Good for you Brian Phelan for telling everyone where to go!

  14. to parent
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [34] | Flag |

    Wow parent….Marci was on anti-depressants? So, this is your theory on why this happened? Are you kidding me? Wise up loser—-Marci was on anti-depressants along with probably 90% of the population—so, this is your explanation? Read a book! Get a life.

  15. Not a cousin
    Jan 18th, 2008
    [35] | Flag |

    Just wanted to point out that the official report is that she removed all of her clothes and all of the two childrens clothes before picking them up and carrying them into traffic.
    It seems like it could have been purely bad judgement were it not for that fact. Why would she remove hers and the childrens clothing if she were simply disoriented from fog??

  16. cs
    Jan 19th, 2008
    [36] | Flag |

    Not a cousin~

    It apparent what happened. Which by the way—should any of us really know??? I mean, does it do good to any of the family and friends of Marci and Mandi do actually know the full details? This should have been kept private—it simply just adds to the sensationalism of this tragic even.

  17. Marci's cousin....a different one
    Jan 19th, 2008
    [37] | Flag |

    Marci was the victim of a strange mental illness. She was in no way acting on her on accord. The mental spell took over, and she was in her own world. There is no way that Mandy could ever have known that this would happen, and frankly Marci did not know it could happen either. This does not make “Marci’s Other Cousin” right in any way at all - because Marci was NOT herself, she certainly did not want to make any headlines, and she was not in control of her mind at that moment. It is just a huge tragedy that happened to a loving family… and guess what, it could happen to anybody. There was no obvious signs that she would relapse with this mental illness visible to herself or her family and friends - it was just a rare, shocking tragedy. Marci deserves to be remembered for the 38 amazing years of her life as a daughter, sister, mother, friend…. and cousin. Have a heart.

  18. Austin
    Jan 19th, 2008
    [38] | Flag |

    This woman murdered these innocent children in a way that was both excruciatingly painful and overwhelmingly scary for the children.

    You can spin it any way you want, but that is the fact, not an opinion. Even the DA has ruled it a *MURDER*. Too bad she isn’t still alive to spend the rest of her life in prison. Death was too easy of a punishment for her.

    I’ll bet once her family gets over the initial shock and denial, they will be pissed instead of making excuses for why she did it. There are lots of depressed people that don’t murder their sisters kids.

  19. Parent
    Jan 19th, 2008
    [39] | Flag |

    So…I’d like to thank Marci for scaring parents all over the world. Now my 4 and 6 year old can never go anywhere without me or my wife. This is a murder suicide…plain and simple. How anyone could do this is unimaginable. I guess this is why they built hell…for Marci and anyone who would harm small children.

  20. friend of a friend of a friend
    Jan 20th, 2008
    [40] | Flag |

    i just want to say that regardless of the situation, despite the news, and no matter what has been said by who, this is a tragedy. as a person from bellingham who indirectly knew the family, i am appalled by some of the hurtful things that have been said about this woman. it doesn’t matter how you speculate. you can think what you want. but have the courtesy to realize that Marci was someone’s family, and that that family still loves her, through and through. have you heard of unconditional love?! put yourself in the tragic situation, and think about how you would feel if this was someone close to you, and seeing these hurtful things written about them? think what you want, you are entitled todo that, but have some respect for the thibault family and the coady family and everyone else who has been affected by this tragedy. if you don’t have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all, because you are only going to make the healing process that much more difficult for anyone who may stumble upon this. think before you speak.

    my prayers are with the family. you have my sympathy.

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