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[honeybee]

why doesn't he do it now while you are still preggers? That gives him like 10 weeks for the check-ups to make sure he's shootin' blanks before you two are frisky again.

[DietCokeHead]

I think we will probably wait until baby is a little older and we really feel "done". I mean, I feel done but I dont want to make any decisions while I am big and hormonal, kwim? Maybe when #3 is 2 yrs we will get it done.

Scout- I hope you are doing ok! Check in when you can.

[Scout]

Hey. Thanks again for all the supportive comments. I'm doing ok. I feel like a cranky-ass bitch with heartburn, but I'm coming to terms with the whole thing, I guess. I'll try harder to do that once I get past the first trimester and see that things are actually progressing.

We talked about dh getting a V, and then I heard some negative things about it and kind of shied away. My best friend's Dad has had to take testosterone since he had it done. His hair turned gray within months of getting it done, he lost muscle weight, etc. Kinda scary. I don't know what I'll do when this is all over. It's been more than 10 years since I've taken an estrogen-based bc pill, so I may see what's out there now and give it a shot. Of course, if I actually have a baby, I'll be nursing again so I'll do the preg-only one I guess.

[MedeaNJ]