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[asrai]

ere are some characteristics of spirited children.. which do you recognize in your child?

A child with challenging behaviors may be called noncompliant, difficult, spirited, strong-willed, or active-alert. The child may be described as intense, persistent, sensitive, slow to adapt, or energetic. These characteristics are often attributed to temperament. Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, author of Raising Your Spirited Child, describes certain characteristics:

Intensity. The reactions of spirited children are always powerful. Their response is usually immediate and strong. There is no middle of the road.


Persistence. These children are committed to their task, goal oriented, and unwilling to give up. Getting them to change their minds is a major undertaking. They love to debate and are not afraid to assert themselves.


Sensitivity. Keenly aware, spirited kids quickly respond to the slightest noises, smells, lights, textures, or changes in mood. They are easily overwhelmed by the great number of sensations.


Perceptiveness. They notice everything, are easily distracted, and are often accused of not listening.


Adaptability. Spirited children are uncomfortable with change. They hate surprises and do not shift easily from one activity to another.


Energetic. Many, but not all, spirited kids are very energetic. They have a real need to move that comes from inside. Not all spirited kids are climbers and leapers, but they do tend to be busy--taking things apart, exploring, and creating projects--from the time they wake up until they finally fall asleep.

[MainstreamMom]

I think you are describing Jack!!!!!!!!

[honeybee]

Ethan too!

[asrai]

Get the book!! I'm waiting for it from the library. Should be here by Thursday.