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Lauren
Slightly Flawed


Joined: 18 Apr 2008
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 6:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have boys, 22 & 18, and a girl, 16. SOME of the Roloff kids' attitude is typical. But no way in this world would I let my kids tell me to "shut up." And I wouldn't let them tell their dad that either! So, all in all, I think they're pretty good kids, could use a little more ambition and a little more hygiene. I really like Amy. She seems like someone I could be friends with. And sometimes I even forget she's a little person. BUT, when Matt tries to discipline, Amy needs to back him up. Kids will lose respect for both parents when they see a lot of dissention. I wonder if Amy sees that or if she even watches herself on the show.

I'm intrigued by Amy. I wonder what it is that won't let her organize or clean the house, or accept the help that Matt has offered to have it done. I'm thinking about the anniversary episode, with the good china in the box on the kitchen floor. There was trash in that box mixed in with her good dishes. Molly asked if she could put up the dishes and Amy seemed offended. Actually, seemed like she got angry even. When my daughter offers help, I usually touch her forehead with my lips, just to see if she's got a raging temperature. Laughing
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Friend
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Joined: 13 Apr 2008
Posts: 145

PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 7:01 pm    Post subject: Disrespect Reply with quote

amanda wrote:
Okay. I m just posting this one to see if my picture comes up that i added to my profile


Yea, you made it. No picture yet tho.


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Darlene
Seen Better Days


Joined: 12 Apr 2008
Posts: 347

PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 7:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lauren wrote:
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. When my daughter offers help, I usually touch her forehead with my lips, just to see if she's got a raging temperature. Laughing
Amen to that,I hear my grandkids say to mommy"it's not my mess, or mom why?or best ever, okay wait a minute"I really think our younger ones offer to help more than the older ones, But Lauren you are so right,Matt trying to correct the kids,you know when ever my hubby & i had a dis agreement concerning the kids we found the best thing to do,was get out of thier ear shot,And I'm not saying I've never yelled,ha,ha,under statement(at hubby mostly)but I can say this, not even our closet friends have heard that,first of all I would'nt want to Embarassed embarrass him,second of all myself,when I hear kids being dis-respectful,I don't really fault the child, it's the parents,It's like our moms telling us to make sure we had on clean under ware,I see a dirty kid, I just think, oh my what is the mother thinking,but yes Amy should back Matt up, I'm from the old school,and I'm going out on a limb, but what ever happened to a good spanking,It's like God gave 2 ears ,& one mouth, listen more talk less,he gave behinds for more than just sitting, discipline starts at home ,just like love does,or at least it should.
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Mary Beth
Slightly Flawed


Joined: 16 Jul 2008
Posts: 11
Location: Atlanta, GA

PostPosted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 9:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jessica wrote:
Good question. I think Matt and Amy are really good parents and I like that Matt is tough and makes the kids do manual labor, but then they do let the kids live in a pig sty. Did anybody watch the episode of them cleaning their room.It's like they had been living in that filth for years.

Amy makes excuses for them when they slack, but I think all parents do that to some extent. I'm really impressed by them all-in-all.


Oh I had forgotten about that cleaning the room episode. That was unbelievable!! A way overdue process. It had gotten to the point that the kids were overwhelmed as to how to handle it. Wonder why they don't make those kids clean their rooms at least once a week? You know a vacuum never saw that floor!! Gross!
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Mary Beth
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Joined: 16 Jul 2008
Posts: 11
Location: Atlanta, GA

PostPosted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 9:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

prescott wrote:
Is it safe to assume nobody in this thread is raising kids that age? Because all their behavior seems pretty "appropriate" (expected?) to me. And in Zach's case, dwarfism doesn't erase teenage attitude. Laughing


I am raising kids this age and I will tell you that if they spoke to me or my husband the way these kids do, I would totally set them straight. You take away a cell phone, computer, nights out with friends and you will get their attention. There is no excuse for kids to be disrespectful to parents. Especially these kids who live a wonderful life.
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Darlene
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Joined: 12 Apr 2008
Posts: 347

PostPosted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 10:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You are right Mary Beth, these kids do have it easy, and have so much handed to them, I don't think they are bad kids but badly in need of some re-assurance who is in charge.

I'm really surprised at Molly, being a girl I would think she would be more help in the cleaning area, but what has she been taught?

I have a couple of little grand daughters 8- 10 and it amazes me how messy they are , Their older siters are nothing like that, but then again they were never allowed to be, at bed time, all toys and books had better be put away, and bedtime was the same every nite, with these two, Confused huh, some one else can pick up for them and bed time is a night mare, but only with mom, When they are here on summer break, never a problem, and it really makes me angry at their mom.

I really do like the Roloffs and I think Matt is a wonderful dad, I wish Amy would back him up more when it comes to the kids, he is not that harsh on them, and you know as old as I was when my mom passed away, if I would have raised my voice to her, well lets say I'd probably be getting some new teeth. and my mom was asaint. Laughing
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