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The Mother-to-Mother Postpartum Depression Support Book: Real Stories from Women who Lived Through It and Recovered




The Mother-to-Mother Pospartum Depression Support Book: Real Stories from Women Who Lived Through It and Recovered By Sandra Poulin Berkley Trade Paperback, $14.00 224 pages, ISBN 0425208087

Review by Prescott Carlson

Postpartum depression is a real condition many women have to face after birth, despite what a certain Scientology-following actor nut job may say about it. Over ten percent of pregnant and postpartum women are affected by PPD, and certainly they have many questions about what is happening and if they will ever feel right with the world again. That's where "The Mother-to-Mother Postpartum Depression Support Book" comes in.

Edited by Sandra Poulin, who herself dealt with and overcame PPD, "The Mother-to-Mother Postpartum Depression Support Book" is a collection of women's experiences with postpartum depression, with frank and honest details about their symptoms, problems, and the steps they took to help them recover from sometimes crippling PPD.

The book is grouped into chapters according to the issues these mothers felt most sent them over the edge dealing with their PPD, such as sleep deprivation, breastfeeding issues, single mothers, and one of the most wrenching, thoughts of suicide and infanticide.

The book is an incredibly engaging look at the postpartum experiences these women went through. My own wife experienced rather severe PPD, and as a male without the ability to truly 100% understand what experiencing PPD is like, it gave me a new insight and appreciation for what she went through. I would highly recommend it to all fathers to help cope with the frustration they may feel with the struggle their wife/partner is going through.

While anti-depression medications and professional help is important, the added mother-to-mother support and knowing you are not alone -- not to mention the reassurance and hope from all these women who have recovered from the experience -- is invaluable.



1 Response to "The Mother-to-Mother Postpartum Depression Support Book: Real Stories from Women who Lived Through It and Recovered"

1. mamma

Nov 30, 2008 00:15

My son's father is a boarding school survivor and active with cultural heritage for youth in the native community. Boarding schools destroyed Native communities, especially as children were torn from parents, and there for had no way of learning parenting skills by example, also basic relationship skills are very hard to learn, as many close relationships were severed.
We met at a forum for peace work. He pursued me for ages when I was unavailable. In a bit of vulnerability, I caved to his persistence. He wanted me to have an abortion- I told him that I had a choice, and since we had discussed having a child, I wanted to keep my baby. He told me to "take care of it". I said I will-- he was ticked and constantly calling to tell me to abort, until my phone was disconnected. He was worried that I would some day ask him for money. I have not asked for a dime so far. I was at an organizing event, far from his town, and far from mine, and unexpectedly ran into him. It was a bit of a scene. Up until that point, I was okay with being a single mom of a precious baby boy- after seeing him publicly refuse to hold his son, and said horrible things- I felt a bit down. I turned down 6 marriage proposals just in the year prior to dating him. It was just silly for him to act silly/ macho like I needed him in any way other than for him to see his child from time to time over the years. It is not about me, it is about a new human being! I now need financial help, though far more than that--- I need emotional support. The sleep deprivation is KILLING me!

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