Sometimes I feel bad about all the new momstumes I wear. I think it's because I don't even remember what I used to wear before having babies. I think there's a little bit of bitterness about that... seeming to only have identities defined by my relation to others, rather than by whatever is left over when all of that is stripped away.
Cheryl, I think you're dead on with your comment. It's difficult to remember who we were before we had children. And then in my case, I fret because I feel guilty for even thinking about that. It's such a controversy for me.
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